(Closed) There goes my christmas proposal

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee

I’m sorry that your cousin did this! HUGS!!!!

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper

((((Hugs)))) Your cousin really DID mean well, but you need to let her know that her actions were more hurtful than helpful.

If she understands that the pressure is keeping your BF from proposing, she might back off.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

Aw. I’m so sorry she ruined it. That’s one reason I’m glad no one in my family knows except my sister.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee

ahh, i’m sorry things got all weird like that. i’m sure she was only trying to help but even good intentions go awry sometimes. i hope you have an enjoyable holidays either way.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

His family pushes and picks all the time, but thats not the constraint… $. Boo.  I hoped for a Christmas proposal too, but not happening… I feel your pain.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee

Maybe he’s trying to throw you off, so he can surprise you on Christmas after all?

Either way, sounds like it’s coming soon!!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

HUGS!! I’m so sorry your cousin spoiled it, but it seems like your man wants to do something special and really meaningful. At least you’ll have something to truly remember and treasure (like, your own holiday!) when he proposes!

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Oh, hugs!  A similar thing happened to me a few weeks ago.  🙂

Good news is- it’s on his radar!  The fun part is now the wait (or so I tell myself).  Sending you best wishes!!

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