Post # 1
Tell me I’m not the only one who has temporary bridal insanity….
On Monday we went to Macys…
We had two missions: dishes and bedding. And we couldn’t agree. FI was being picky. Too plain, too flowery, too cheap, too etc. And I was annoyed. We didn’t get into it or anything I just said okay and we kept looking… but inside I was a little annoyed that he was being so picky!!!
On Tuesday I show him some online research I did about bedding and dishes…
I show him a few options for each and ask his opinions… what he likes/doesn’t like, what he likes best, etc. He says everything looks good and he trusts my judgement. And I start to get a little annoyed. This is our STUFF! He should have an OPINION!
Crap. He had an opinion I was annoyed. He didn’t have an opinion I was annoyed. Luckily I realized I was insane before I said anything dumb, thanked him for his input and gave him a kiss. Our poor guys 🙂
Post # 3
Hehe sometimes I think that about my fiance…
Then I just laugh to myself and think “haha now he’s stuck with me!”
Post # 5
haha, I’ve started telling J when I need an opinion – he knows that if I show him something and am like, “Look what I did for the wedding!” his only response is how much he loves it. But if I come to him and say, “What do you think of …?” he knows that really what I need is to verbally process through options. AND when I say, “Okay, but I can’t decide and need your input” he’s free (or sometimes forced, but hey, I’m forced to have opinions on wedding crap all the time!) to have an opinion/make a decision.
Post # 6
HAHA I do this too! The stuff we like is SOOO different but I get mad when i ask and its not what i want to hear!
Post # 7
@mishelleez: lol exactly. like i want him to have a strong opinion— i just want it to be the exact same opinion i have…. 🙂
Post # 8
We do that sometimes too! Like with the dishes we compromised he got to pick out the glasses and I got to pick out the actual dishes. I think we have been together long enough now though that he just knows to go with what I like lol When we registered he was like I’ll just go with what I know you like because I know you have to control to go online and change everything anyway lol I’m lucky though he has pretty good taste anyways and we do like a lot of the same things! <3
Post # 9
When we went to register dishes and bedding took sooooo long. We must have spent an hour in the store looking at dishes and another hour looking at comforters.
We both have very different tastes. But after all that work we did find something we both liked!