(Closed) They shouldn’t call themselves parents.

posted 8 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
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2538 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Oh sweetie! I’m so sorry this happened to you. It’s got to be hard enough being pregnant and having your man overseas. Honestly, I wish I could just hug you and help you have the wedding you deserve. As someone who was pregnant and had a baby before their wedding (miss you Moosey), I know that a lot of people can be rude about your decisions, but they’re yours and they’re what you want. When he gets home, you have the wedding you want and ignore this forced day. Hugs.

Post # 4
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2201 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Oh my. When he gets home, the three of you should go somewhere beautiful and have a private ceremony that means a lot to you (and any friends you wish to invite) and leave your “family” at home. And get yourself that pretty dress!

Post # 5
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109 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I agree with Goldilocks, you gotta have a redo. Once he gets back from overseas pick a wonderful place and have the wedding you dreamed of.  It doesn’t matter if it is “official”… even if it is just the two of you, pick a great place with an amazing view, or sunset, something special and memorable and read vows to one other make the moment yours.

Post # 6
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69 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Yeah, you can def do something more emotional later! If you want a service in a church, or just an emotional union service outdoors in a favourite spot, you should definitely plan something for when he is back.

You could plan what YOU and your husband want, include your new beautiful baby when he is there and have a day that you really wanted.

Don’t let it go 20 years and wish you did it!

I’m sorry your mom is so lame! Ugh… mothers!!

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