(Closed) They've taken over a bit

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2055 posts
Buzzing bee

@clumsylawyer:  If your BMs making such accessory decisions bothers you that much, simply sit them down and tell them exactly what you’ve posted here. Explain everything all at once so that they don’t go out and buy something else you do not like. There’s no sense resenting them down the road if this could be resolved early on. 

Post # 4
4439 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@clumsylawyer:  You telling them YOU’RE wearing a pearl hair comb and then them going to look for pearl hair combs just sounds like a miscommunication.  I’d just respond with “no, this is more what I had in mind for your hair….”

Post # 5
51 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@clumsylawyer:  Your bridesmaids seem like pretty level-headed fun gals.  I don’t think it would be unreasonable to mention that there might have been a miscommunication about who was wearing the pearls and why.  I think if I were in your bridesmaid’s shoes, I would totally understand that your pearls have specific meaning to you and I wouldn’t want to ruin that for you.

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