(Closed) things slowly shifting….

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Glad to hear things are going better.  Those talks are always helpful in setting the landscape, so to speak.  It is soooo difficult to refrain from obsessing, but it doesn’t do anyone any good to create that tense environment (I’m struggling with this right now, too).  I think us waiting gals need to focus on loving our guys, loving ourselves, and RELAXING!  I know – easier said than done.

For what it is worth, every time I successfully do get it out of my mind, we move a step further…

Post # 5
2496 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I agree.  Sometimes guys need to see what they would lose before they will commit.  I almost broke up with Boyfriend or Best Friend over a serious issue in our relationship, and during that talk he realized that he did want me and would do whatever it took to keep us together.  Sometimes that’s what they need.

Post # 6
1280 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Yay Zalonia! Put it out of your head for 6 months. It helps to actually do this when you have a time in mind that you can revisit it (otherwise it may creep back in). So for now consider the seed planted and tell yourself you will expect NADA for at least 6 months. This worked well for me.

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