Things to spice up sex on honeymoon

posted 3 years ago in Honeymoons
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@pinkcrush:  If you are into role playing then I would pick up a few costumes but as for sex toys I am clueless! 

 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@pinkcrush:  We used to LOVE the edible body chocolate stuff but I can’t remember the brand. I would also invest in a small vibrator- I say small because so many of them are ridiculous porn star video huge… Obviously lube- we love wet platinum & it’s not all that pricey (strangly they carry it at our target). And load up on that lingere! I got a pair of crotchless panties from Fredricks & he LOVED them so much! If you’re into playing with other areas you could get those anal beads- they are staggered in size so you can start with just one small one and see how that feels before you go all out… 

We’ve got a gorgeous redwood box by the bed with all our toys in it & are thinking about signing up for the Spice Box subscription where they send you new toys/products monthly… 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@pinkcrush:  They are usually silicone beads attached to a long silicone string type thing. IF you think it might be exciting to try anal they are a good way to test it out without committing fully. The beads start at different sizes, I think mine starts at like a 1/2″ diameter maybe a 1/4″ and they progressivly get larger (I’ve never used the whole thing). What I did was play with them myself before I ever even let DH know I had them because I wasn’t super comfortable with that idea until I figured out if I could enjoy it or not. 

Basically, you pleasure yourself, then slowly insert the smallest bead- it’s attached to the silicone string thing so it won’t get lost or anything & the rest are just hanging out there. You can pop in more if you want to try it or just stick with the one. It can be pleasurable to some people- I’ll put one or two in slowly then leave them there until I’m climaxing & then pull them out slowly during climax. I was surprised how different it felt & wasn’t painful or anything since the balls are so small. It’s more like an anal sex trainer because it’s nowhere near the size of a vibrator or “one-eyed snake” so you can try the sensation without jumping all in… 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

To be honest, i would spend my money on lingerie. I bought a different set for each night we were on our honeymoon (It was only 5 nights) and my husband absolutely loved it.

 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

We delayed out honeymoon to this November so I think I’ll just buy new cute lingerie!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@pinkcrush:  I’m doing lingerie/outfit for our wedding night and then I have some sexy/comfy oversized shirts I got at VS, another nightie & then pj pants with my new monogram. All of these are a surprise for FI…I realize some of this might sound “standard” but they are all new so he will be surprised & he will LOVE seeing my new initials. 

I was going to do a surprise each night but we don’t have room to pack…we are gettimg married and HM’img all in same place. 

 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

@pinkcrush:  I’m not sure where you are honeymooning, however as much as I like toys, I never take them when I travel by air.  I’ve read too many stories of people being embarassed or humiliated by TSA (or their other foreign counterparts) agents.  Yes, most people don’t experience that, however I would hate to be one who does.  I’ll be packing plenty of lingerie and body oils for our hm, but the toys will stay home.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee

Simple is better I think. If you’re not into sex toys already, I wouldn’t advise you to get some and try them on on your honeymoon. Wait until you are at home if it interests you. I would go with nice lingerie, which I think is always appreciated, and maybe an erotic novel that you could read out lout ? If you’re looking for small elements to bring, massage lotion, feather brush and blindfold would be on my list. Small, easy to carry, very sensual. 

Have fun. 🙂

Post # 14
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Lol, for many couples BEING MARRIED and being on a Honeymoon is enough

For others, perhaps a bit more spice is needed (but I wouldn’t worry about it too much, as most of us will say that the first two elements tend to set the mood no matter what)

Mr TTR & I relied on location, atmosphere, and a natural high (whooopppee we are married at last) and a few nice pieces of lingerie that I packed along

To be sure tho, there were occasions when the lingerie never got taken out of the suitcase…

The fact we were married, was more than enough incentive

Sealed *Shut the Front Door Face*

Lol

 

Post # 15
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Busy bee

@pinkcrush:  I actually recommend looking on amazon.  They have a huge selection and you can browse and not feel awkward.  

I had a lingerie party instead of a tradional bridal shower, so I took lots of new lingerie on our honeymoon 🙂

Post # 16
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Bumble bee

@pinkcrush:  Pretty sure they can see most everything in the bag. They will see them. The flipside is, my dad used to work for TSA and he said they see that stuff all the time. So it isn’t a huge deal unless you had something really out of the ordinary.

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