Post # 1
So the other day I was talking to my sister about her upcoming visit to stay with us for a long weekend. We’re planning a low-key girls weekend and the hubs was nice enough to offer to make himself scarce while we watch girly movies in our PJs, eat junk food and stay up talking like we used to (we like to do this once a year because we very rarely get to spend time together lately). One part of our girls weekend includes a shopping trip that’s a good hour away from our apartment, and my sister suggested we go see a movie that’s opening that weekend to end the day with. Because the hubs isn’t going shopping with us, and I’ll have the car, he wouldn’t be able to meet us there to go see the movie with us. I told my sister that I couldn’t see the movie without him, and because she’s younger than I am and doesn’t understand these things, she thought I was so weird. It wasn’t a big deal or anything, she was fine with it and really didn’t care, but she was just like, “Oh, umm, okay?”
The hubs and I have a rule that neither of us sees a movie we BOTH want to see without the other, be it on DVD or in the theaters. We both LOVE movies, and oddly enough, we very rarely go to the theater because we’re really picky about what we want to see. So, when we go to a movie, it’s a big deal, and we just don’t do it without each other.
So that got me thinkin’. Is there anything you just don’t do without your SO (I mean, besdies the obvious like buying a house or something:) )?
Oh, and props to my hubby for understanding that I need girl time with my sister! I love him for giving me that because it means he’s stuck hanging out/watching TV in our bedroom all night one night 🙂
Post # 3
Go out to dinner with my girlfriends during the week without offering to pick him up Lions’ Choice.
Only b/c I’m nice, though =]
Post # 4
Same as you, Miss Chapstick! I don’t go to the movies if my Fiance wants to go to the same movie and can’t come. We love movies, and love going together. That is probably the only one I can think of though!
Post # 5
We have the same rule! R broke it once (we were 16, Rent had just come out, haha don’t know why I remember that) and tried to hide it because he felt guilty. Muahaha, I can tell when he’s lying!
I know there’s more, but I’m having a stupid moment right now and can’t think of any.
Post # 6
We honestly kind of do everything together. I can’t really think of things that we do apart. We are just that disgusting. 😉
Post # 7
@rachel: Yeah, we’re actually the same way 🙂 The movie thing is one of the very few “rules” we have, but in the end, we pretty much do everything together anyway.
Post # 8
Um… he won’t have boys night unless I’m working. That was more relevant before all his friends moved away.
Post # 9
- Wedding: September 2009 - City Hall
There are certain restaurants I can’t eat at without him. I guess I COULD… he wouldn’t get mad or anything, but I’d feel so bad, especially since he loves them more than me!
Post # 10
- Wedding: July 2010 - Anela Garden Chapel & Japanese Cultural Center, Honolulu
we do pretty much everything together, but one thing for sure mr. sew cannot get a haircut without me. he has stylist phobia…
Post # 11
We tend to do almost everything together too. Every once and a while, he will go play golf with the guys and I will go out with the girls. I think it’s important to still hangout and have “guy time” and “girl time” every now and then. We usually always meet up after though
I will definitely not go to a bar/club without my SO.
Post # 12
There are certain tv shows that we HAVE to watch together. Especially Lost! We have to go grocery shopping together, too, but that’s more for practical reasons. Oh, and we’re working our way through Super Mario Galaxy on the Wii, and we don’t play that alone.
We were doing a puzzle not too long ago, and he got pouty when I put part of it together without him. 🙂 Yeah, we end up doing most stuff together!
Post # 13
We basically do everything together but in cases where I do have a girls night or he is going to a game or something after about three hours its just to weird! I am sure that some people think its to much but stuff is just so much more fun with him around.
Post # 14
We wont watch “our” shows on PVR unless we’re together…
Post # 15
I can’t really think of anything that we won’t do without one another . . . usually if I want to do something and he can’t go, I’ll do it and vice versa. I love doing stuff with him and he with me, but it doesn’t keep us from doing something apart. Maybe travel to a state or location we’ve discussed going to together . . . .
Post # 16
Besides watching “our” shows 2/g (Lost, Big Love, etc), there really isn’t anything that I wouldn’t do w/o Fiance. We do tons of stuff 2/g, but I’m totally fine doing these things w/ friends as well.