My husband is a ‘Street smart’ type of guy. Yes, I was fully aware of the ‘Street’ side of him prior getting together, I accepted all that from him…. He have childhood friends who are doing drugs, thugs/gangsters too. Some of his friends got arrested two months ago for transporting/possession drugs.
Now in defense of my husband, that is his friends, NOT him. My husband doesn’t do drugs, he doesn’t even smoke or drink…. He should NOT be held resposnible for what his childhood friends do. He can’t control what his friends do; if they keep do stupid things, they will get arrested, problem solved.
So two months ago when his friends got arrested, I was scare and very worried. Because sometimes he hang around with his friends in group, watching NFL Football at their place…. And this give me worries because if they get busted, my husband will be charge in “Guilty of association” for being in the same place with them.
So at that time when we had sex; Lord, my mind start wandering off. Endless worries and worries of what happen if one day he no longer here with me? This sure get me distracted during sex…. I’m sure any girl who love their man would be worry the same way as I do. When you love someone so much, you afraid of lose that person.
So yeah, during sex, all my mind can think of was would he be here with me tomorrow? What will I do when he is gone? Is he gonna get arrested one day for being in the same place with his ‘Street’ friends?…. Argg!! His love for the ‘Street’ is more than his love for me, etc….
Well we married now, he is an awesome husband. He working 2 jobs, everyday 12-14 hours shift. So he doesn’t even have time to sleep let alone hang out with his ‘Street’ friends. But I admit, I sure do worried sometimes.
Advice for the ladies out there, Do Not, Do Not, try to NOT fall in love with a guy who have tooooo much “Street smart”. The guy who have the “Street’ side, and especially the guy are loyal to his childhood “Street” friends. Because you will go through the same worries as I do above…. You are better off if fall for the “Scholar”, the “Book smart” type of guy.
But I was sexually attracted to the “Street” side of my husband. The attraction was too intense that I end up being his wife despite I know I will always continue to have worries about him…. I ain’t a good girl neither. I’m just ‘the girl in the hood”, as he is ‘the guy in the hood’. So I darn know how the game work, and he beat me in it, Lol!