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ETA: Just in case this gets heated, remember all relationships are different. We all have different standards. Please keep that in mind if you disagree with something.
Thanks! :)
"You just need to tone"
Yes, my DH has said this
"What a cute little belly..." STFU Mr. Beer Belly!
"You shouldn't be upset/angry/etc over that..." Gee, thanks for telling me how what assanine thing you just said should make me feel, that really helps! He usually whips this one out at the peak of an argument just to push me over the edge.
"I didn't like x you made for dinner"
Me: Why not?
"I just didn't"
Me: Then eat a Hot Pocket and can it.
He does zero cooking and is a picky eater. grrrrrrrr.
"Don't worry about it".
In response to a question he does not want to answer or he knows will upset me. Literally like this:
Me: "Is your mom really coming to visit?"
Him: "Don't worry about it."
@PitBulLover:Agreed Agreed Agreed! I CANNOT stand this. Seriously, it pisses me off so bad.
Any variation of "It'll all be okay" or "It will all work out" when I am worried or stressed about omething. I know he means it to be comforting but I would rather put a plan in place and when I try to ask questions or figure out a solution do not placate me. GRRRR.
my husband likes to say that i'm "chosing to be upset" when he pisses me off.
i tell him he's fucking A right i'm "chosing" to be upset and that he needs to "chose his words wisely and i won't be upset:)" lol
I can't stand it when he says 'shut up' even in a joking way. It just kills my mood in a second.
@hellomrsko: haha, an ex boyfriend once told me my stomach was "marshmellowy"...and he thought I should take it as a compliment!
oh, boy. I HATE when DH says:
"I am going to pick you up" he always tries to pick me up. I HATE it. I weigh more than him!!!! LOL
"just chill" THIS IS THE WORST ONE! I could scream when he says it.
"leave me alone" that is what he says when I want to go to bed and he is in his computer room and I keep going in there asking when he is coming to bed LOL
@nontraditionalmiami: OMG my husband says the same thing...grrr!
@MsBrooklynA: yes, I have no idea why but OMG I cant stand that!
keep them coming, I'm entertained :-)
"I'll do it in a minute"
I'm still waiting for alot of those minutes
@Mrs.ChubbyBunny: Mr. Ko is too. He's getting better but he is stubborn and holds weird grudges against certain things like a little kid would and makes goofy excuses for me not to use whatever when I'm cooking. I had to yell at him about sweet hot mustard the other day, told him I was using it and if he didn't like it he could make his own... Ate it and liked it... *facepalm*
"Just calm down" XD
Tell me to "just calm down" and I will go crazy on you! It feels like my emotions are being trivilaized!
Umm, last night he said my pizza sauce was "pretty good." My mom started perfect that recipe when I was in kindergarten, and I've starting tweaking it as early as middle school. And apparently's it's just "pretty good???" Taco Bell's gotten better reviews than that from him!!!
@bmarie12: Guys are so weird! He genuinely likes it... I'd prefer to not acknowledge it, however... LOL!
@yrret107: I had an ex who would say that. "Are you PMSing? Cause you're being bitchier than normal" EXCUSE ME?!!?!
Oh, and my other favorite, from the same ex "You know, I like to go out without you a lot. You're kind of boring."
A-what?!
When he asks me a question, I answer and over top of my answer:
"okay, okay, okay, yeahyeahyeah, got it" THEN WHY DID YOU ASK! Don't talk over me when you wanted to know what I thought!
@PitBulLover: it's just his little immature way of trying to get under my skin when he's mad at me. he's passive/aggressive so that's his style of arguing. it's so obnoxious. thankfully we don't bicker 24/7 but we do argue from time to time and he tries to pull that shit but i always outwit him:) i'll say something like, "aww a little passive/aggressive comment...you must not have any valid defenses in this argument"
he usually shuts up after that lol
@MissTatas:I hate that one too! And I always get the 'why can't you just trust me'.... when he hasn't gotten the groomsmen suites yet. Ugh!
I hate it when he says 'I am sorry that you feel upset'. Notice it is not that he is sorry for his actions but sorry that 'i feel upset'. So irritating.
"Bedtime!!" - I know this is weird but there is more to it. Very often he gets ready for bed (a total of 5 seconds) and gets into bed before me. This means there is no cuddling and since he snores it also means that I will not be sleeping the whole night. I've asked him to give me a 10 minute warning but he usually doesn't.
@Ms. Martian: OMG! FI does this exact thing and it is soooo irritating.
@bestbuddies: Ahhh my guy does that too!!!!! It freaks me out to know end, and I just end up feeling bad cause I know I'm not a skinny girl.
@LGenz: Ugh, any comment on hair/grooming gets under my skin like nothing else. Just today he informed me I have some (very light thank you!!!) hair on my toes. "Just a little strip of wax will take care of that." Really? I had NO idea that wax removes hair!!!!!!Wow thanks!!!!
And this coming from someone who has the feet of a Hobbit.
@cucumbersandwich: Those are the same things that get me too! I had to bug him for a while about who his groomsmen would be and he kept saying "I didn't pressure you to ask your BMs, I'll get to it". He did finally though.
And same with the upset thing. We had a rough patch and he would say that, I feel like it's saying "I'm not sorry for what I did just sorry you reacted differently than I thought".
"What's up with your shirt?" And here I thought I looked super cute in my new shirt. Needless to say I don't wear it anymore.
When I am upset or crying, and he says "Stop" or "Calm down" or some variation, it just makes me flip out because I feel like my feelings aren't being validated.
Also, he loves to tease me and push my buttons. He thinks its hilarious. And I put up with it and always warn him to stop before he crosses the line that makes me snap, but he always crosses it anyways and then gets mad at me for being mad. I told him to just stop making me mad on purpose then, and he replied that it is just so fun...until I am actually mad. But riiiight up until that point, big fun game. Ugh.
His idea of telling me something sweet (usually right before bed since that is the only time we really get together during the week, and yes, I am one of those girls that asks to be told something sweet, lol) is saying "I love you and you're my sexy baby." Every night. Despite the fact that him saying I am his sexy baby does not make me feel especially sexy or special. Its worse when he just says "I love you". I love you too babe, but that is not what I had in mind when I said tell me something sweet. But I am also being one of those girls in this scenario, so I usually just let it go. Or look at him and say, "What else?" if I am in one of those moods, haha. Atleast I'm not asking him what he's thinking right? Haha.
@MsJeep23: My FI doesn't do this, but I've had exes make comments like that! Stuff like, oh, you haven't shaved your legs in a while (in the middle of winter) or "you have a pretty big zit there". Thanks, I had no idea! It always gets to me when guys pick on things like shaving and skin care when no one expects them to.
@Ms. Martian: What is it with guys and just hopping straight in bed and crashing?! I want a hug and kiss and MAYBE a little snuggling. I dread the "BEDTIME!" too, because I know he'll get there way before me and be out like a light before I even hit the sheets!
My boyfriend has this annoying habit of correcting me when he KNOWS I'm in a testy mood. I know it's ridiculous and if I'm wrong I should be able to be corrected and not be a bitch about it but I just can't be. If I'm ranting and am pissed about something and say something wrong, don't be like, "oh, actually you're completely incorrect." LET ME RANT AND TELL ME LATER.
"I wish you died on the delivery table". Umm yeah a this was said to friend of mines friend, so I heard this second hand. He had cheated on her, being very disrespect of their relationship on facebook and she had recently given birth to their first child So yeah...they recently had a second child. So I guess she made it work...
@hellomrsko:OMG do we have the same SO? lol mine does this too and all I can think is "really your going to go there after you know that you have already pissed me off"
I'll do it in a minute........ Its been posted on here before but its a big pet peeve of mine! lol
He says the same thing all the time just to send me into orbit and he thinks its hysterical. It's political so I will not post it, but he totally does it on purpose and each and every time it will send me into orbit.
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