(Closed) Think he might want to postpone…

posted 5 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: What do you think it meant?
    He might not be ready yet : (2 votes)
    8 %
    You're reading way too much into it : (23 votes)
    88 %
    I'm not sure : (1 votes)
    4 %
    Other? : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1677 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I think you’re reading too much into it. It sounds like he is just trying to take some of the stress off you to me, which is thoughtful rather than concerning. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    6750 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    It sounds like you’re totally reading into it too much.  He probably is freaking out about all that is left to do, just like you would be!  Guys know less about the process and I know my FI freaks out when I tell him all these different things that need to get done.  I’m sure he wants your wedding to be a dream wedding for you and for you to not have to settle on anything you want.  Unless there are other signs that show that he’s pulling away, I wouldn’t think too much of it or else you’re just going to create a problem that isn’t there. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    1128 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I think you may be reading into it too much, he could have just been making a comment…especially with the fact that he said you could go to the courthouse tomorrow, gives me no indication he isn’t ready.

    Post # 6
    Member
    9484 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I think you’re reading too much into it.  I think FI is being supportive in saying because you feel as if you’re far behind.  I don’t find that to be the case.  Is there a reason (perhaps financially?) as to why you two couldn’t look for a venue soon?

    Post # 7
    Member
    3627 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I mean, if you’re not willing to compromise on the date being April 20th, I understand why he’d want to postpone for a year. If you could push it back a month or two, I imagine he’d be amenible to that.

    Post # 9
    Member
    7610 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I agree with the others and wouldn’t worry a bit!  Good luck finding a venue soon. 🙂

    Post # 10
    Member
    595 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I also think that you might be reading too much into it. I am not understanding why you think that you are so far behind though. We are getting married in October and we didn’t book our venue until about 2 months ago. It will be okay. There is enough time to get everything done. 

    Post # 11
    Member
    10 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    We’re getting married April 27, 2013 and we haven’t booked our place yet. We know WHERE we’d like to, but we haven’t sat down to secure the date yet. You’re probably reading too much into it! Get your venue, and BREATHE! Everything will work out!

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