(Closed) Thinking about a christmas proposal

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Should i propose to him at christmas
    yes : (3 votes)
    25 %
    no : (9 votes)
    75 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    9825 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    Do you know for sure he wants to get married?

    Post # 5
    Hostess
    2556 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I think it’s a great idea that you want to propose to him, but I’m not a fan of doing it on a holiday/birthday/anniversary.  But, that being said, you know your relationship better than I do.  I think it’s a cute idea (all the gifts leading up to the engagement), so if you think he’d melt over it (and wants to get married), go for it!

    Post # 6
    Member
    59 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I think the idea sounds lovely. But if you feel that part of the issues in your relationship have been over you  “freaking out about when we’re getting engageed/married all the time”  you proposing might feel like more of that to him and you taking control. Unless you know he feels totally okay with the idea of you proposing. 

    Obviously you know him and I don’t but that’s my thoughts. Good luck!

    Post # 7
    Member
    1245 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    If you’re worried about “taking away his moment” then do NOT propose to him.  What if he’s not ready?  Can you handle that kind of rejection?

    I personally am not a fan of holiday proposals either.

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