- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
I am in need of some good advice. Our wedding is set for August 13, 2011, we have set that with the both venues, and a few of our vendors. The thing is that we are having some financial issues and have been unable to save enough money for ALL the vendors. We both feel so weird having to push it back, and we are unsure as to when we should set the date, again. This has been a very frustrating time for us. We haven’t even sent out the invitations, and the only way any of our guests and family know the actual date is by word of mouth or via the internet. I know that we are going to have to talk with both the reception and church venue to see if they both have the same dates available and we also know that we will have to pay a fee for changing the date, which we actually have enough for. I just want to cry b/c of all the stress. My fiance and I are paying for the whole thing ourselves, while we are trying to pay off some legal expenses (father of my son decided to file for sole custody; he lost of course), and put my son in this great & pretty cheap private school. We are DIY’ng almost the whole wedding, which is loads of fun. I am just worried about pushing it back, I’ve waited so long to get married, and my fiance is a wonderful man, I just want to hurry and get married. LOL. I guess I just need some great and positive advice. I need to know that we are doing the right thing.
Thanks for reading and I am looking forward to hearing what y’all have to say.