(Closed) This a rant but it just may make me feel better

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
6893 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Oh I feel this. We haven’t been engaged as long, but we will be and we’re about 1/4 of the way through and already I’m like “Can we just elope? What about a beach ceremony?” Lol. I think it’s great that you’ve kept your cool thus far, but we all reach our breaking points. I hope writing this made you feel better! Just letting you know – I get it. We just started planning and already the opinion overload is like “GO AWAY!!!!!!!” ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 4
1740 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I just went to a wedding for about 30 guests – it was great.  The church as quite large for so ew people, but it was beautiful, and the reception was inside an art gallery in a small cafe overlooking the water. There was even a small room off to the side that worked great for the couple’s first dance.

Tell them that budget cuts have hit home, just like in the governemnt and cutbacks will result in a trip to Vegas for just the two of you.  Elvis and Marylin can be your witnesses, and you can get a Captain Picard stand-in the marry you on the bridge of the Starship Enterprise!  Talk about memorable! ๐Ÿ˜›

You can’t please everyone all the time, ever, so just do your best and make your wedding ahppy for you and your Fiance. 

Post # 5
2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

hahaha i love you for this rant! POWER TO YA!!

I feel the same way!!! I really really REALLY wanted to elope from the begining to this point today!

2 more months to go for you! Just try to play nice till then ๐Ÿ˜›

Post # 6
7 posts
  • Wedding: May 2011

Couldn’t agree with you more!  Being engaged gives you an automatic target for people to give you unsolicted advice… Last night we happily shared we were going to Mexico for our honeymoon, and it turned into a topic about drug cartels :/ A “how exciting, have a great time” would have sufficed! 

2 more months to go until my wedding, and I WILL be enjoying my margarita in Mexico afterward!

Post # 7
57 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I feel the exact same way!!! I will never view certain people in the same way ever again after all the drama…and just when you think it’s all leveled off and settled down…in comes a new wave of complaints and absolute crap.

Post # 8
473 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

hi miss cupcake can u plase tell me how is the maker of the dress on etsy the isadora ann please pleas e please

Post # 9
1488 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Oh man. I can relate and I still have a year left. I quickly learned to not tell anyone of any of my plans until the wedding. The only people who know what is going on is my Fiance and my mom. Everyone else gets to be surprised ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 10
14 posts
  • Wedding: October 2011

Oh man, I have exactly the same feelings, and I’m half way through my 14 month engagement. And we are only having 50 people! And people are still acting crazy.

My Fiance told me about a month or two ago he never wanted a wedding (he wanted to marry me, but basically just have witnesses). I was so heartbroken at the time, but now, I GET IT!! Even though we are still having somewhat of a destination wedding, with a smaller guest list than most weddings…I wish we had just gone to an island and eloped with maybe my parents and a few friends!

I told him the other day that I know we can make it through anything if we can make it through this engagement. I hope you get through the next two months with the least amount of stress possible! Coming to these boards for support is one of the only reasons I haven’t had a nervous breakdown this week!

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