(Closed) this guy, should i date him, just be friends, or loose contact

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

Is this for real? 

I think your parents know what’s best here. You shouldn’t be sending naked pictures of yourself to guys. Doing so crosses the friendship line. It doesn’t sound like you’re interested in dating him so why lead him on? He seems to have some serious issues so I would leave him alone. 


Post # 6
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

Honesty’s the best policy. This situation is really unhealthy. You shouldn’t be trading your body for gifts. Hopefully your parents can help you feel more secure and help guide you. 

Post # 7
2497 posts
Buzzing bee

@outgoingcutie15:  You are never obligated to send naked pictures of yourself to anyone, ever. It is especially unwise to send naked pictures of yourself to a stranger, who could easily plaster your photos all over the Internet. How old are you? If you are a minor, it is probably illegal for you send naked pictures of yourself to someone, especially as compensation for a service rendered.


Do things the right way. If you want someone to help you do something, get a job so you can pay for it. Don’t date someone you’re not interested in. And certainly stop sending naked pictures of yourself to people.


Post # 9
3572 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

If you’re actually 21, what on earth do your parents have to do with this? Why would you even (need to, let alone) tell them that some creep on the internet wants you to send him photos. This all sounds really off to me.

And I can’t believe I have to say this: No, don’t “date” someone you don’t know on the internet to get downloaded tv shows. SMH

Post # 12
4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

You’re 21 years old and don’t realize that sending your picture to random boys on the internet is a good idea? Oh, that’s right, it’s okay because he’s paying for stuff for you in return…hey, maybe you should offer to have sex with him and see what he’ll give you for that! *facepalm*



Half of your post doesn’t even make sense, but you clearly have some growing up to do – your past posts make that obvious as well, they are pretty much all about nonsense drama. There’s no excuse for it, you’re an adult and need to start acting like it. Time to step away from the computer and getting so wrapped up in online relationships, get a job so you can pay for your DVDs yourself (and, you know, general life expenses…hello, you’re in your 20s, you should be working towards a future where you can support yourself and be self sufficient), and ossibly think about getting back into school so you can learn to express yourself in words that are more proper and clear.


I’m sure that sound harsh, but you are not that much younger than me to be so irresponsible. And this is just ridiculous.

Post # 15
619 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I’m sorry, I don’t believe you’re 21.

Either way, if this is for real, you need to cut contact with this loser straightaway. You need to tell your parents the full story (yes, including that you sent pictures of your boobs) and you need to get your internet security etc updated as well, the sooner the better. I don’t know if this guy has your address, I’m guessing he may if he was sending you DVDs, so your parents need to know for security reasons, especially if some creeper comes to their home looking for their daughter.

Also, if he was really into you, he wouldn’t be harassing you for photos. I dread to think where those photos could end up, especially if you are underage as I suspect you are.

Post # 16
2343 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Seen catfish? YouTube it. Enough said 

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