This is a really stupid vent.

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1367 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

That’s obnoxious.  Hopefully it was meant as a joke although that’s unlikely.

Post # 4
1120 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Seriously, why do people do that? Since she’s your grandma’s friend I assume she’s older and should understand etiquette… its not like she’s a high school girl inviting herself! Don’t worry about it though. She is getting invited, and you don’t have to pay for her, so its all good! Just smile and move on with planning your beautiful wedding 🙂

Post # 5
2283 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Grrrrrrrr…why are people so effing rude?!!!!

Post # 6
2037 posts
Buzzing bee

@208bride:  Did Judy mean it as a joke when she was talking to your mother, and then your mother didn’t relay the info correctly?  It just seems like an odd thing, to just force your way into a wedding, I mean, who does that?  

Post # 7
955 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

That would rub me the wrong way too, both if someone said that they would come to my wedding invitation or not, and if my mother called me a brat for my reaction.

Post # 9
4518 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Eh,.. they may have said it jokingly. I had people make that comment. Without hearing what tone they used it’s hard to say really. If they really were being rude like that.. well,.. ew. 

Post # 10
1272 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 1994

Definately rude to be a wedding crasher!

Old people do tend to get away with things! My grandmother has gotten worse in her old age. Bless their hearts. Try and laugh about it if you can. It beats crying.

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