- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2010
I wanna scream!
I wanna scream!
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( I hope you are ok)
@MrsCoachBtoBee:who knew sending out Save-The-Date Cards and figuring out when/where/how to get the groomsmen tuxes could be so damn difficult! Seriously, Fiance is completely unwilling to even help me because “it’s my job since I picked them out”. I wanna smack him because just like him, I have no idea what I’m doing
@MrsCoachBtoBee:yeah I did. We started yelling at each other and then I started bawling and it was all this silly thing. I hate that I’ve overloaded myself with classes and work and wedding stuff. I hate that whenever we go to do the next big step in wedding planning I turn into an emotional roller coaster. I’m not a bridezilla in the least but some of the things I feel like I need to know or do makes me feel like I’m supposed to be Wonder Woman. And all of the stress of everything else going on in my life is enough to make any woman insane
ETA: He did point out that he has been pretty helpful with going to the vendors and everything. I’m just the one doing a lot of the detailed stuff. We obviously both know nothing about weddings.
AHAHAHA! I have heard “I dont Care!” come out of FH mouth so many freakin times…only to find out at the last minute that he does care and his opiniionis the COMPLETE OPPOSITE of mine! He is driving me NUTS. He tells me I am crazy for doing things so far in advance…and the other day when we could no longer find the suit that he wanted I made him admit to me in the middle of the mall that there is a method to my madness and that I am not insane and that if he just listened to me and got the suit when I said we should he would have it.
Although it is good to know that others are going through the same thing…I wish none of us had to.
@ebill23: Wow, you found Mr.ND’s twin.
Me-“We need to pick out a venue” Him-“It’s so far away, stop worrying.” Me-“Things take a long time to decide, Mr.ND, let’s both look, ok?” Him- “Whatever you like is fine, I have no opinion.” (a few weeks later) Me-“Babe, I like this thing that I’ve done lots of research on” Him-“Eh, I don’t like it.” *steam out of my ears* Me- “And why don’t you like it? What do you suggest that’s better?” Him- “Um, IDK, I just don’t like it.” Insert ANYTHING wedding related, rinse and repeat! Ooy, men!!!
@MrsCoachBtoBee:oh yea I told him that! I was like oh my god I think my head is going to implode from all of the friggen stuff I do all the time. I’m working 30 hours and classes and wedding and cleaning and such. And you work part time. And I’m grateful I am but ahhhh! I can’t do it all!
Thank goodness we both calmed down and all that. I hate over reacting
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