This is awful.. But I have to vent.

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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7412 posts
Busy Beekeeper

That is a horrible story. The pages and events should be for both of them. The poor girl must feel like no one likes her which would be horrible thoughts to be having that close to the end of your short life.

Can you or some of the other mums do something nice for the girl?

 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

That’s terrible! Is there any way you and the other mums could make a facebook page for the other little girl? Maybe organize a ball or put money together to send her somewhere she wants to go? Disneyland in Paris, maybe? 

Post # 7
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1988 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I understand that but being completely left out like that must be devastating for the other little girl! This is so unfair it’s making me want to do something and I don’t even know who she is.

Do you have a charity organisation close to where you live that could help, maybe? Even if her parents were millionaires, I simply don’t understand how the school could act like that towards a terminally ill child.  

Post # 9
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1988 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Just reading your post almost made me cry, really. It’s a great idea about the email, let us know what she says. 

Maybe we could get the other bees on board with some ideas about what can be done too? 

Post # 10
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7412 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Trey someone like make-a-wish.

http://www.make-a-wish.org.uk/

Editing to say I just looked at their website and you can refer a child so maybe that is what you could do.

 

 

 

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Do you know the parents of the other kid? I can’t think of any reason why, but maybe they have been offered this stuff and have declined. Maybe they don’t want their daughter to be always labelled as ‘the sick kid’. Obviously I don’t know anyone involved so I may be totally off.

 

also, it breaks my heart that there are TWO little girls with terminal illnesses in such a small group. Childhood cancer is just too devastating to think about.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - Creek club at ion, SC

@polkadotgirl:  +1 check the parents have not declined this. 

Some parents or maybe even the little girl may just want to spend as much time as possibly with family at home. 

Id talk to parents and if this is not the case … i would head it up myself

Post # 13
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1988 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

@polkadotgirl:  You might be right! Good thinking. 

But if the parents or the little girl herself haven’t declined it something like make-a-wish (like j_jaye suggested) would be so nice… 

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Is it possible th girl doesn’t want the attention and neither do her parents? Maybe this is something they prefer to deal with privately. 

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