This is going to be rough lol

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Agh what a jerk lol!!!  Honestly, there’s nothing you can do except wait it out.  My suggestion?  Try not to mention it as much as possible.  If he really taunts you with it, politely ask him not to.  My fiance did a few sneaky things to throw me off that really upset me, but was finally able to take me totally off guard.  Still, the waiting game was painful!  From the minute you’re engaged, it comes and goes all too quickly.  Good luck!! 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Oh PS, try not to get drunk around him lol that’s when I found I would talk about it the most and get upset and say things I’d rather have kept to myself hahaha!!

Post # 5
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Blushing bee

Not okay! Hold strong though, it’ll be a distant memory once it’s on your finger 😉

Post # 8
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Busy bee

Awuh! Sounds like he’s so excited too though! I would see my own guy doing the same if he wasn’t so obsessed with the surprise factor. For example, he knows that purple sapphires are my favorite but purposefully calls them amethysts to tease me. 

I would focus on doing a few of the last ‘single things’ you can do guilt free! Think about it, technically, you don’t have to start wedding planning so make a splurge you would feel guilty about if you were under pressure of wedding finances. Go out and enjoy time with friends you might not have time to catch up with when you will be busy trying to balance such a big life transition. Reflect on your pre engaged or single life and try and connect with some of those memories. Then in no time you’ll have a sparkly on your hand and will confidently open this next chapter in your life having fully closed the last one. 🙂

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