(Closed) This is just too much to bear – feelings too deep Need some guidance but Long :(

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

((HUGS)) I’d just go and be there for your fiance and keep quiet about everything else… I’m sorry that you have had to go through this, I know how hard it must be.

Post # 4
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559 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m so sorry to hear about all this. How especially horrible for your son to have to move schools, and how terrible for the family to uproot you guys, with no warning! In hindsight, would you two have been able to sign some sort of lease or legal document that would have made your stay in the house legit, so they wouldn’t have been able to rudely kick you out?

It is really, really terrible what some people do when a family member passes away and there is property/valuables/or just plain items “up for grabs.” I have heard such awful horror stories of how family turn on each other when this happens, and even witnessed it a little myself, and I just don’t understand. So, I can kind of empathize with you, and I know what I witnessed in my life made me sick to my stomach too.

I hope the best for you and your FI. The fact that you guys made it through that difficult time, even though it took a few months, just shows how strong you guys are. But, I agree with crebre. It may be best to stay quiet for awhile.

 

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