- Miss Fish
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: December 2011
…but I have some serious concerns with some lady problems.
FI and I have been sexually active for just under 3 years (we were each other’s firsts). In the beginning, it was great. Everything worked like it was supposed to. Hunky-dory. Awesome. We never had any problems whatsoever until about… 9 months ago, maybe less.
Because around that time, my vagina decided it was on a limited schedule. We’ll be going at it for a while and everything’s fine, but when I start to climax I turn into “the jaws of death,” as he likes to call it. I get so tight that it will NOT go in. No way, no how. It’s like someone slammed a door shut or something.
Apparently my reproductive system decided that the time frame is about 10 minutes, or as soon as it starts to be really pleasurable. Whichever comes first. Oh, and it stays that way for a LONG time. Like, if we wake up in the morning and try again, it’s still on lockdown.
This leaves me incredibly frustrated. I feel like that CANNOT be normal. FI is really great about it, and he tells me it doesn’t bother him… but it bothers ME and I can’t help but feel like something is defective lately. It never happened in the earlier stages of our relationship, and it’s only getting progressively worse.
Does anyone else have this problem? Or do you know what it might be? Is it something I should be worried about? I’m kind of freaking out, but I’m not about to go to the gyno if it sounds like I just need to get laid more often, or something. (The co-pay on my specialist visits are 40 bucks. Who do they think I am, Daddy Warbucks?)
Sorry about that level of intimacy we all just shared.