(Closed) This is my business, right?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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3049 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

Yea, he decided to add another person… so I would totally ask him who it is going to be beforehand. That way you know it’s coming and can shake it off during your actual wedding. You can also decide seating charts from knowing who it will be.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I would just ask if the person is a lady friend. It is your wedding and you invited him. It is kind of rude of him to even cross out the RSVP line and add a person without asking you first.

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

Um, I’d say it’s definitely your business who is coming to your wedding. Parental companion or not – especially if this has the potential to cause undue stress to you or yours on that day.

Are you and your dad not close, or do you not speak on a regular basis that it would be an odd thing for you to ask who this “friend” is he’s bringing to his your wedding ceremony?

Aside from the breach of etiquette with the RSVP card, and I don’t know if he’s financially contributing (sometimes that can come with strings and an attitude of “I paid, so I can do/bring whatever I want”) – but why WOULDN’T it be your business? 

Maybe it’s just me, but I didn’t like the idea of either DH or myself having to introduce ourselves to people at our own wedding. Ask the question.

Good luck!

 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

seems like he would have just told you who it was if it wasnt a lady freind.  i still think you have a right to know for sure though.

 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@mandb122: Well, at least you know.

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