This is rude – right?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Is it rude to post reminders about R.S.V.P's on Facebook?
    Yes, it is rude. : (42 votes)
    71 %
    No, it is not rude. : (17 votes)
    29 %
  • Post # 3
    11598 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Yes, I find it very rude to make any mention of your wedding on Facebook, unless it’s a closed group to attendees only. 

    Post # 4
    1112 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I think thats pretty rude. I’m sure the people who aren’t invited won’t take much notice of it but… she should definitely jut call, or at least send private messages! Its not that hard!

    Post # 5
    2355 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I feel like this question was asked not too long ago. Yes, it’s rude and tacky.

    Post # 7
    6447 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @newbabybee:  tbh after dealing with the hassle of people not rsvping and not even being able to reach some of them, I don’t think this is that rude. Is it past the RSVP date? Those guests are being rude by not sending their RSVP in.

    Post # 10
    6447 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @newbabybee:  then I find it rude. Not because it was called out on Facebook but rather because I think it’s rude to start contacting people before the deadline.

    Post # 11
    1662 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Yes. It is certainly the wrong way to go about it.

    I’m guessing it is a sincere plead for responses as opposed to a cry for attention though. I can’t say I wasn’t tempted lol. Instead, I sent separate private messages to 2 guests and assumed answers for the rest. (The wedding is in Mexico, so we have a pretty good idea for everyone else.)

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