This made me think of you ladies!

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

@ValerieBee03:  THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!  

This IS why we wait….because we find the right man, want to get married, and are willing to wait because he’s worth the wait.  

We need to see things like this more often.  THANK YOU!! 

 

 

 

 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

What a good point! 

Post # 7
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Worker bee

*huge thumbs up!!*

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

That’s awesome. I know too many couples that basically settled and I can’t imagine a life like that. 

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee

@Rubbs:  me too!! Like i know so many dysfunctional couples its ridiculous. My SO and I actually had a great conversation this weekend. He turned to me and randomly said as we were driving

 ” I have been so happy lately. Sometimes i just think to myself ‘oh my god I want to spend the rest of my life with her. I dont know what is going to happen in the future, I know its soon but i know there is no reason to rush and I really dont want to end up like all those [uhappy married]couples”

We have been dating for 2.5 years so its not too soon lol I told him he was right and we aren’t in any rush. but sometimes im like ugh…what if all these people scare him!

Post # 14
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@leisha606:  aww…well I got engaged when we dated for 33 months, so you’re right around that time frame. 

I have 1 friend basically being forced to get married and another who just doesn’t feel like starting over. 

It’s sad. 

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

@Rubbs:  That really is! Settling is not the answer!

My BFF/Cousin was really drunk on her birthday and I know alcohol brings the truth out, but it also makes people exaggerate you know? Anyways, she just started going off about how unhappy she is and unattracted to her husband. How they only got marries because she got pregnant and she married the wrong person etc. There are things she has never even told me and here she is announcing it to a group of people (that are going out to a bar with her and her husband after!)

This is one of many dysfunctional couples, but I just found all this out this past weekend so its all fresh in my mind. I feel so bad for her, I mean it takes a lot ot admit something like that.

Post # 16
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@leisha606:  wow..omg they are headed for disaster. It’s understandable that a couple would want to stay together if they have a baby, but it won’t last. And we all know the truth certainly comes out when you’re drunk :/

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