(Closed) This shower business keeps getting worse by the minute…

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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522 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Wow…the NERVE of that woman to say that to your mother. How incredibly inappropriate.

Post # 4
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1566 posts
Bumble bee

That’s so out of line! If you don’t care about upsetting her, I would maybe ask your mom to politely tell her she’s not invited. But if you decide to just put up with it, I don’t think she’s  going to ruin your shower.

Post # 5
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Helper bee

Yeah – can your mom call her and say something like she’s hoping to keep the shower a little smaller and the invitations have already gone out? 

How incredibly rude and tacky…

Post # 6
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925 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

uh.. rude a bit much?  Your mother should just tell her straight up she’s not invited(mom’s can do things like that).  Why does she even want to come? So strange..

Post # 7
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545 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Yeah… weird

I wouldnt allow someone i dont like at my shower but i guess if you dont mind then you should at least get a present out of it!

Post # 9
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204 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Yeah she better bring a good present!

Since she invited herself maybe your mom could tell her what to get you.

or, you could tell her the the date has changed… the wrong date… on accident, of course. lol

Post # 10
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188 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I would tell your friend that she need not bring that guest. I dont care if its rude, if you dont like her, she shouldnt be there. end of story.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

It was rude of this person to let your mother know she was coming without an invite, so I don’t think it would be rude to remind her that she wasn’t invited.  Some people!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I would ask the mutual friend to politely let the chick know she wasn’t invited. Let your friend know that you understand that they are friends, however, you don’t have the same relationship with her

Post # 13
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

So weird.  Sounds like she likes drama.  I think it’d be easier to just let her show if she shows and don’t give her much attention.  Sounds like she thrives on attention.

Post # 14
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620 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Maybe she’ll bring a nice present? Just kidding! 

Some people have no tact at all.  I’d let her know that she is not invited and that she’ll be escorted out if she shows up anyway. 

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Wow…I would not have your mother handle this. I think you should handle it Strait from the source so to speak. Don’t put your mom in the middle…

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