(Closed) This wedding is causing tension between FI and I. (Just venting!)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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746 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Blah, I hear ya! We’re sharing the cost of our wedding with both our sets of parents, but I feel the same way — guilty for spending every penny. I can’t wait until the wedding over so we can just be married! We’re both just a few months away!

Post # 5
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9620 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@mnp:   Money is truly one of the most difficult issues around wedding planning.  I’m sure your FI is very appreciative of your efforts to be frugal but it’s only natural to get stressed out about it.  I don’t know why everything wedding-related has to be so darn expensive! 

But the most important thing is you’re marrying the love of your life and your best friend.  And one day you’ll look back and won’t regret one penny of the money you spent on the most lovely day of your lives.

((Hugs))  It’ll be ok!

Post # 6
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895 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

FI and I have been having arguements about money as well so I understand how you feel. Maybe you should take a day or two and forget about wedding stuff and do something the two of y’all like to do together. FI and I have been having some arguements about wedding things and I have tried my best as well to be as cost savy as possible. Our wedding is all DIY except for a few things here and there. You’re more than halfway there so just keep focus that this will be all over soon!

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