(Closed) This weekend? Not this weekend? This weekend?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@kay01: Oooooh fingers crossed!! I was in that boat this time last week :). Enjoy your weekend together no matter what happens, and just relax because it’s not in your control. Don’t worry, if he plans on doing it he will make sure he finds time to pick up the ring etc. I said all these things to myself last week! There’s no holding back the excitement but try to relax anyway πŸ™‚ I got my nails done “just in case” and it still happened lol. Love the umbrella analogy though!

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@kay01: LOL I am always trying to keep my nails looking nice so that I am prepared to show off my ring πŸ˜‰ I hope he doesn’t catch me on an off-day in regards to nails lol. A friend of mine got engaged a couple years ago, and her BF at the time made the whole proposal a weekend thing. He sent her off to a spa (which, obviously, included a mani), among other things, and proposed on the last day. How perfect and thoughtful was that?? Hehe, her nails were completely prepped for showing off something sparkly!

He may be trying really hard to stay focused in order to throw you off! πŸ™‚ I hope it happens this weekend, but like kimmy13 said, enjoy it either way πŸ™‚ !

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

ooo my fingers are crossed for you , keep us posted

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Your timeline is very similar to mine –  we went and looked at rings (and basically picked out the exact custom ring I wanted on Sat. May 14th. They were closed Sunday so he went back Monday and actually ordered and paid for the ring (he tried to keep it secret, but he’s terrible at lying!). The jeweler said it usually takes 2-3 weeks to make custom rings, but mine is a halo with pave, bead-set diamonds on the band so it’s a little more intricate and it’s busy season with engagements! It has been over 4 weeks now so the ring has to be done soon!

 

I keep asking the same thing… this weekend? Not this weekend? Haha good luck!

 

P.S. I started growing my nails out (after a lifetime of being a nailbiter) and keep them painted at all times just in case! Haha

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

Don’t stress about it- if he does it this weekend, great but if not, then you know sometime in the near future. It IS coming so just let him do his thing when he is ready. Either way, he is gonna have a plan to do it, now or a few weeks from now.

Post # 8
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Busy bee

@kay01: fingers crossed for you!!!!! YAY!!!!

 

@shinythingsrule: haha oh I love it!!!! I thought SO was going to do it a few weeks ago so I painted mine pretty RED !

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

@kay01: I didn’t mean you were bugging him- I meant worrying if this is the weekend or not. I did that right before my FI proposed and it almost ruined our trip if I didn’t accidently find the ring box. I almost had a meltdown before he was going to propose as it was his plan all along (not saying you will, just showing you why I said not to worry about it). Worrying about whether it will happen this weekend or not may put a damper on your mood (as it would be a “perfect” time for him to do it). Don’t worry about it- worry more about having a good time with him and that these will be your last “moments” as a single lady. Just knowing he has the ring should be enough- soon it will be on your hand.

And definitely come here- of course. This is the first place I turned to when I needed someone to bring me back to myself because I know there were some days during the wait that all the wondering I was doing got the best of me. Good luck this weekend!

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Yes, update please! :):) Hope you had a WONDERFUL weekend either way πŸ™‚

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@kay01: You’ve got us all on pins and needles!! πŸ™‚ Glad to hear you had a good weekend :):)

Post # 16
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Blushing bee

The suspense is killing me!

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