(Closed) Thoughts on sexy day after "We Did" shots

posted 5 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I wouldn’t… too personal.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

What’s the purpose of the photos? If it’s to share them with others, PASS. No one needs to see all of that. 

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’ve seen several that make me really uncomfortable. I don’t need to see a couple crawling all over one another, thanks. I know you got married.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Awkward.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Meh.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee

I guess I could maybe see the appeal for couples who waited until marriage to revel in the glory of post-coital… but I doubt I’ll even have sex on my wedding night because we’ll be too tired so it seems a bit silly to me. I’ve always been a fan of the morning after goodbye/thank you brunch anyway.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

i think if you want them then go for it, but unless you’re going for more of a sweet/romantic vibe I would think twice about sharing them with others. You only get one shot, so if you can afford it I think it’s worth it. Worst-case scenario you wind up with pictures you aren’t comfortable sharing, so you don’t.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Whatever, if you want them for yourself, that’s cool.  But showing them to others & putting them on a website screams: WE TOTALLY JUST DID EACH OTHER.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

yikes – all the ones you posted make me squirm – it’s just so….self indulgent and unnecessary? they’re just kinda gross! i think kissing shots etc are different at the wedding – you’re caught up in the emotion of it!

but to book a photographer in order to specifically have romantic/sexy/whatever shots feels very wierd and forced to me. if i saw these on someone’s website or wall (!) i would cringe. i mean in these photos there is a photographer saying ‘that’s great! move your hand up her thigh…good, can you kiss again?’ weird! 

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2006

Don’t let the closed minds on a forum determine what photographs are important for you to have in your life.  If you would enjoy photos of that – then go for it.  People have already just assumed that you’re going to be plastering them all over the internet and showing off so to speak, without anything in the original post to indicate that.  

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2006

Never ceases to amaze me how judgmental people are on here.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

Personally, I think they’re beautiful. It’s weird to me how people will go to see movies with super romantic/erotic scenes and that’s fine, but photos of a couple who is crazy in love and just got married is gross? I don’t get that at all. I think if you like how they look and you like the idea of having similar ones of yourself, you should go for it. It’s catching a moment that will never exist again, as newlyweds.

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