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Ties for Groom and Groomsmen - Help?

posted 2 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: What should the groom and groomsmen wear? (Read below for explanation)
    purple bow tie for groom, non-purple neck ties for groomsmen : (12 votes)
    48 %
    purple bow tie for groom, purple neck ties for groomsmen : (4 votes)
    16 %
    purple bow tie for groom, non-purple bow ties for groomsmen : (8 votes)
    32 %
    other, which I'll explain below : (1 votes)
    4 %
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    Blushing bee
    runskiclimb    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    Will it look silly to have the groom wear a purple bow tie and the groomsmen wear non-purple (gray, black, or silver) neck ties?

    My FI really wants to wear a purple bow tie.  He has done a ton as far as wedding planning, but in an effort to make our parents and me happy, few parts of the wedding are things that he actually likes.  I want him to wear his purple bow tie that he has his heart set on - he deserves it!  (Sidenote: The bridesmaid's dresses are purple)

    I know the groomsmen are supposed to somewhat match the groom, so we were planning on everyone wearing the same tux.  I originally wanted the groomsmen's ties to semi-match his, but that would mean either a) purple neck ties or b) non-purple bow ties.  I don't like option a, because I understand most guys hate wearing purple, so I don't want to do that to our close friends.  I don't like option b, because I am not too fond of the look of a bow tie.  But will a purple bow tie and non-purple neck ties look completely silly?

    Thanks!

     
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    SaraFoxy0328    03/28/2010   Dallas, TX

    I would go for the purple bow tie for your groom and non-purple neckties for the groomsmen.  If the tuxes match, that's plenty to make it look cohesive.

     
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    Candy_Nee    May 1, 2010   Raleigh, NC

    My FI is wearing a pink bow tie (he's such a good sport!) and the groomsmen are wearing green neck ties.  I think it'll be a good look. 

     
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    Lovebug333    July 17, 2010   BC, Canada

    Why don't you think the guys will wear purple?  It's just a tie...tell them to suck it up. :)  What if you did a black tie with purple accents...like stripes or dots or something??

     
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    Lovebug333    July 17, 2010   BC, Canada

    go to www.freemanformals.com ... they have a mannequinn you can dress up to get a better visual. :)

     
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    PrncssDva    October 16, 2010   Memphis, TN

    I think it'll be just fine. Let your guy wear his bowtie..he'll appreciate it

     
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    verosara    March 27, 2010   LA, California

    The groom has to stand out, so he should go with the purple, and let the other guys go with non-purple. 

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    I know lots of guys who wear purple.  I never knew it's a boy no no color.  Even if they don't like it, they'll deal with it for one day.  Girls are constantly forced to wear dresses they hate in horrible colors as bridesmaids.

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    @candy nee. i'm jealous! my fi just wasn't having pink.

    i think you should just have them wear what you want them to. like others said, they can suck it up and wear purple. if you like non purple better, that will look fine too.

     
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    Newbee
    Project Ruffle Swap       MD

    I think a cool tie is a great idea.  What about a striped purple tie...

    I was trying to find a purple and grey or purple and silver, which could look really nice.  Here is an example though - Ties-Necktie.com

    Ties for Groom and Groomsmen - Help? :  wedding groom groomsmen attire bow tie nick tie purple SB1673 Md TNT Modern Purple Striped Tie by Cavallieri

     
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    LadyGoodman    September 25, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    I know it's going against the majority, but I really like the idea of a purple bowtie for the groom and purple ties for the groomsmen.  I think there's something a little unexpected about that, but the matching colors would help keep it cohesive.

     
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    Chachacha    June 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    I like the idea of a purple bowtie and purple neckties. However, if you think they will put up a fuss, then I think you should do a purple bowtie and non-purple neckties.

     
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    runskiclimb    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    Thanks for the input everyone!  Still don't know what we'll do, but I'll keep all these suggestions in mind!

     

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