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So tomorrow after lunch we are having a big talk about our relationship. A lot of stuff has come up lately, about his parents having failing health and lack of support, my recovery from carpal tunnel surgery happening presently, and the whole what is marriage/wedding/reception etc.

So I expect this will be a difficult conversation, possibly with some elements that will leave me disappointed. I guess I am just suspicious of him saying we need to talk after three failed proposal attempts last year (he'd say he was planning it, and then nothing would come to pass).

I'm going to try to do a lot of nurturing stuff for myself, like going out to breakfast at a favorite place alone in the morning. Thanks for listening gals!

Good luck. Even if the conversation doesn't go the way you want it to it can be an eye opening experience.

Thanks Ladies! the breakfast was devine and now I'm taking a little break at the library. I"ll report back

I hope everything is going well. I've got my fingers crossed for you!

Oh, it was a difficult talk. He said he wants to feel like he wants to claim me in front of God and everybody (like at a wedding) but he's not there yet. I cried. We talked about different aspects of relationship that he sees ARE great, and about areas that could be better for both of us. We spent the rest of the evening together, being affectionate and watching a couple good movies.

I knew I was going to be disappointed during this conversation. I am trying to take a breath of fresh air and plunge back into our relationship. I will be so glad/relieved when he is finally ready.