@eloping: thanks for your reply, I moved in his city to be together, and got a job here. and my parents are in different city, which is far away from here. so we have decided to get married by natural talking. he felt kinda bad in the fact that we already decided to get married without his proposing, so I asked him around when he could get me a ring, and he says ‘it is sopposed to be surprise’, and he still wants to ask me the question, even both of us know that we are going to get married.
honestly, I think Im kinda worried about this situation,I know im silly though, because last year, because of the condition that we live so far away from each other, jobs,,my parents’ economic situation, there was a time he wanted to let me go, but he could not do that eventually. for the record, Im not american.
he came over to my hometown, and worked for two years totally for me, and now I came over here to be with him and we already decided to get married at a court first when we were in my hometown(another country).
and I just got the documents for the marriage from my country this morning. and I have around three weeks left to go to get married. and still waiting the proposal. I am waiting because he said he wanted propose me anyways,,
Even I know he and I know that we are going to get married, but he wants to propose me and then he wants to announce that we are getting married to his family. So, I want to get the ring first to announce to my relatives and my friends.
because of my experience that we could break up because of the condition, I get sometimes mean thinking about what I have been through
but, now we both of us trust each other, and we are so happy being together.
I just can not wait to see the ring, Im a woman, and I want to get proposed even I know that Im going to get married.