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    meeksy    8.8.10  

    When do you start the ceremony? Is the time on the invitation the exact time it's supposed to start?

     
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    mrspeacock    April 24, 2010   Stamford, CT

    We gave the specific time but are giving a 5 minute buffers after it to allow for late arrivals.

     
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    Miss Meepsie    01/15/10   NYC

    I suggest giving a buffer. 

    How long of a buffer depends on a lot of things... 

    1-is your ceremony @ a house of worship that will require a specific start time? 

    2-is your ceremony venue local to most of your guests?

    3-are the majority of your guests punctual people?

    4-physical location aspects - i.e. is there a possibility of inclement weather that might hamper people's ability to get to your site?  is your site in a large city where there might be rush hour/gridlock?

    Personally, our scheduled ceremony start time is 7pm, but we put 6:30pm on the invites because:

    a. our wedding is in January in NYC on a Friday night - weather and traffic to account for.
    b. our friends and family are notoriously not punctual.
    c. we want to give people ample time to check their coats and warm up! 

    Luckily for us, we're doing our ceremony @ the same place as our reception, so when guests arrive, they'll be served mini hot chocolates and sparkling water at the bar until everyone arrives & is seated for the ceremony. 

     
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    Gilneas    October 10, 2010   NJ

    If you have chronically late family, a buffer is a good idea.  Even if you don't - a buffer is a good idea.

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    I wouldn't put in a buffer of more than 15 minutes or the people who are on time might feel strange that they are there so much earlier than the ceremony start time.

     
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    Jizes318    November 19, 2010   Miami

    I was thinking about doing a buffer myself... i was going to put 5 on invitaions but start at 5:30. or 5:30 and start at 6.

     

    Just in case anything came up (traffic etc) i dont want anyone to miss a thing...

     

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