- 3 years ago
- Wedding: September 2016 - Our Castle
My wedding isnt for another 2.5yrs, but i have been engaged for 1yr already.
Time feels so fast when i recall the past year but so slow when i look at the next 2.5yrs.. 1st world delemas i know..
I am building a house hopefully between now and the wedding day. My MIL to be is wonderful and allowing her two sons to build a duplex (two houses joined due to councils rules) on her land by buldozing her old (falling apart home). We all live there, MIL FI BIL and myself.. and all of us and BIL’s gf maybe by the time we build will be his FI?!..
I am constantly tossing up between house related research and wedding and feel like everything is to far away but have a nagging feeling that time will get away from me.. Any sugestions?.. anyone had something like this before?..
P.S. Nothing will stop us from building this duplex other then having to delay due to council or money etc.. Our wedding date is set for special reasons and im determined to do my best to get the honeymoon my FI wanted.. I am making my own favors etc and trying to buy things slowly between now and then as well as pay off current debts and save for other costs, building variations and honeymoon etc.. Its alot and sometimes i think my head will explode but then i focus on one thing at a time and obses till im ready to change to another..
Wow sorry for the rant and babble.. My MOH and best friend is very busy with her own life and troubles, dont want to stress my MIL or FI (they stress easy) and my family just thinks im complaining when i try and talk to them.. Feeling a little alone and tired.. but if i dont do it it wont happen….