- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2011
DH and I initially wanted to try for a baby after our two year anniversary, which would be next June. I graduate with my Masters next May and he already had his. He is 28 and I will be 28 next March. We’ve both been a bit baby crazy lately, and today we had a big talk and decided that maybe NOW would be the best time to try–if we got pregnant soon, I would have the summer after graduating with the baby to get used to being a mom and job searching rather than getting a job after graduating and (hopefully) getting pregnant soon after a new job started–and if we didn’t get pregnant right away, well we might line up with our earlier timelines…who knows. Obviously, we have no idea how things will work out, but after a long, giddy talk, we decided we should just go for it! We are going to sit on this idea for a few days to see how it feels before “pulling the goalie” around O-time next week.
I do not want to talk about this with IRL friends yet, as this is a private and personal decision–but as a lurker on the TTC and pregnancy boards the past year, I have seen what an amazing place the ‘bee is for this kind of thing, So I am coming to you, bees, because I had to share with someone 🙂
I know that a few IRL friends are around the boards, but I am not sure how active–so if anyone I know IRL happens to find this, please keep the secret.