Timeline Revision/Update

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee

@Kat_Kit2000:  Congratulations!  Good luck!  BUT I don’t like this check back in with me stuff.  He really can’t remember August on his own and begin the discussion himself?  Geez.  Men.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

@Kat_Kit2000:  Congrats!  August is not that far away, life moves fast–and it sounds like it will align with you finishing school!

As for your afterthought:  I would say to avoid hoping that he’s throwing you off.  I know that it’s hard to not hope for the future to happen a little quicker, but honestly, things happen when they are supposed to, and sometimes hoping for it to happen (such as your vacation in January), could lead to an upset.  Just try to hang in there and know that August will likely get here a lot quicker than you think!! No need to rush! Cool

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee

@Kat_Kit2000:  Yes I also do not prefer to talk about my relationship in terms of moving forward IRL.  I think that it’s much better to have a brave face and trust in the future with your SO than it is to be the whiny lady who talks way to much about getting married!!!  LOL.

MAYBE instead of YOU reminding him in August, you can be a little more creative like adding it to his calendar or next time he says remind you, you can say “I’m going to send you a meeting invite that will have a pop up reminder” and then this way, you don’t have to say anything again, and it holds him more accountable lol!

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