- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2009
Ahhhh! I needed a place to vent, and since NO ONE in real life knows about our TTC plans, I figured I would come here.
About 6 months ago, my hubs and I thought we’d start trying around Feb of this year. He had a bit of a freakout in January (scared of things changing), so that postponed our timing a bit. On the other hand, I was also a bit obsessed about starting to TTC, so I think that was part of the cause of the freak out (damn you biological clock!!!).
So, we decided to wait a little bit, but that when we did start, we could just start NTNT. That way he could ease into the idea and I agreed to not be so vocal about it. I have been charting to avoid pregnancy since I went off the pill in November. So I know when I ovulate.
Anyway, my husband said to me this past weekend that he wanted to start trying… and I had JUST ovulated about 4 days prior. So there’s no chance in March. And I had always thought about avoiding for the month of April, because my cycle would put my due date right after Xmas– which if we had been trying for a few months and weren’t successful, I wouldn’t care about a Christmas baby. But we have SO MANY family events during those 10 days, that I just don’t think it would be fair to a future child, if we have any say in the matter.
Ugggg… if only he had said something a week before!!!! 🙂
BUT I guess everything happens for a reason! He probably would have freaked out if he told me he wanted to start trying, and then I literally got pregnant the NEXT day or two (in the rare case we were successful on our first try).
ANYWAY, I just need to be patient so I thought I’d come here to vent and simultaneously squeal and jump up and down. And I need May to get here already so we can start TTC!!!