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tipping officiant?

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dancemom   7/25/09  Indiana

How much do I give to the officiant?  I guess it wouldn't really be a tip as he is not charging us anything, but isn't it customary to give them something?  What is the norm or going rate?  My FI thinks $100, I was thinking maybe $50.  ideas?

 
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Gilneas   October 10, 2010  Live in NJ, Marrying in NY

It really varies - if he's not charging you anything, I think $100-$150 is appropriate, or a nice card and gift.

 
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ErinMarguerite   July 26, 2009  Chevy Chase, MD

I've read that for some places, there's an expected donation of $200-300.  If your officiant is affiliated with a religious organization, ask them what is customary.   If you're using a rent-a-reverend or a civil official, \I'd check with other people who live nearby.  I'm guessing it ranges widely from Indiana to DC...

 
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missteacher     San Diego

we're giving $200 ... I have a friend who's paying $800, but he's doing counseling with them too

 
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flamingo   June 21st 2008  Montreal, Qc Canada

Um... I didn't

Is that bad? I did make a donation though

 

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