Tipping your vendors

posted 3 years ago in Money
Post # 2
Member
28 posts
Newbee

islandx0sunset:  It’s my understanding that you tip all vendors that are not the business owner.  Cake delivery man?  Tip.  Self employed florist?  No tip.  The basis for this is that the biz owners set there own prices.  Employees do not.

Ultimately it is up to you who you tip & how much though.  

Post # 3
Member
2899 posts
Sugar bee

I agree with the PP. I would also add that I don’t plan on tipping when gratuities are included in the bill, unless the service is beyond exceptional. 

Post # 4
Member
336 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

islandx0sunset:  We went with a pretty similar approach.  I didn’t tip hair and makeup as they came to us and work as independent contractors, but I did tip their assistance ($50/ea).  Same with Photog and video – no tip for the main people as they own their companies, but both brought assistants which we gave a tip to.  I tipped my planner a pretty penny, but she was worth it ($500). I also tipped all 10 band players, but not the ceremony musician as she owns her own company.  Didn’t tip cake – she owns her own, and charged $100 for delivery.  Hmmmm, i gave my planner i think 4 to 5 $15 envelopes for delivery people, but I have no idea how many people actually delivered items so that one was a bit tricky.  Limo – tip was included and caterer it was incorporated (and I would have been a little miffed had I tipped them, food was delicious, but service was subpar for what we paid ~40K.  as the bride i was told to ‘hang on a second missy’, while in line for a drink at the bar. BRUTAL).  Go with what feel right.

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 10 months ago by  amRN.
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