Post # 1
My SO is hilariously goofy, cuddly and cute. It’s my favorite thing about him. Occasionally he can be a little more serious/rough but it’s rare and I like it to be rare. Anyway, sometimes I want to seduce him but I don’t know how to do it because we’re usually both in goofy/cuddly moods. Sometimes putting on lingerie can help, but I want to mix it up a little and do unusual things.
Because he’s so goofy, he tends not to be interested in anything overly corny or else he’ll just crack up and laugh. He also doesn’t like anything too kinky where he’s in a submissive situation.
Do any of you have jokey, goofy husbands and how do you get them in sexy moods?
Post # 3
Are we talking about the same man?! I need to read the responses as well!
Post # 4
Honestly, my Darling Husband is the sameway.He can be really goofy/silly, whereas Im not-as much.
I used to be really “uptight” when it came to sex, as in, I always used to take it really seriously, try and be really meaningful and romantic/sexy, but I soon came to realise that you can be silly and goofy,and as my ex once said; “Theres nothing wrong with having a laugh and a giggle when your having sex, as long as you dont fart in my face!” lol,
I would just go all out, greet him at the door in full lingerie,have a laugh about it,and then demand he gets his a** up them stairs into the bedroom!
Laugh,have a giggle with it, and when your SO laughs at corny things, laugh with him, hey, stuff is corny for a reason, cos its funny.
Post # 5
GOTTA find his porn stash. See what’s in common, and do what the girl does. DON’T let him know you found his private porn collection.
Post # 6
Email me if you need help finding it. I know every trick us guys use.
I never break the “Guy-Code” but I feel like this is an exception, because, I help a bro live out a fantasy.
Post # 7
Push him against a wall, drop to your knees and take his breath away. No time for goofy (not that I don’t appreciate a good laugh while we get busy)
Post # 8
Grab his hand and pull him into the bedroom and give him a playful push on the bed. (undress before/after as desired, undress him if you want/he likes).
Tell him the bedroom is lonely and needs company, ask if he’ll help cheer it up.
Say it looks like he’s wearing too many clothes, offer to help remove them.
Sit in his lap and tell him he turns you on, mention specific attributes.
Forget the soap opera/tv/movie “seduce”, this is real life. Just letting him know you want him in a fun way is probably enough. 🙂
And nothing wrong with laughing, as long as you aren’t laughing at each other!
Post # 9
To be blunt, a good BJ always puts my goofy man in the mood. After a couple minutes we can move on to whatever but its a good wat to start things off.
Post # 10
I wouldn’t interpret laughter as a lack of arousal. We don’t do corny “seductive” stuff and sometimes something will make us laugh in the middle of things, but both our sex drives are high and we have a great time 🙂