Post # 1
Sometimes I really can’t stand people.
I consider myself a nice person, fun to talk to, considerate, blah blah blah… and yet, there are some people out there who are COMPLETE b*$#es. Loud mouths, rude, etc, who seem to just be able to make friends & entertain people so easily.
It’s totally F&#@*d up.
This happens everywhere.. from the workplace, to people I have known for years.
I’m tired of being the nice one.
Forget blondes, it’s b#@&*es who have more fun.
Post # 3
Actually, from personal experience I can tell you that blonde b*tches have the most fun 😉
I totally hear you, though. Sometimes I meet people and I’m like HOW DOES THIS PERSON HAVE FRIENDS? Or people at work – how did this person get to where they are being like this? I think you’ve just gotta roll with it. My dad once told me something amazing in response to me saying something to the effect of “I feel like I’m still in high school with these people.” His response was “Well where do you think all the a**holes from high school GO? They don’t disappear. They end up in the real world just like you, and they are still the same a**holes they were in high school.” So wise, that man.
Post # 4
LOL @ kittyachi – thanks for making me laugh.Your dad’s statement is so true. You’d like to think people leave high school mentality on the graduation stage. Like they have to trade it for their diploma or something but nope. They get to keep it apparently.
Post # 5
Yes, for some reason it’s easier to scapegoat or leave out a nice person than it is a loudmouth jerk. I have become less nice as I get older and as a result am actually getting more respect from friends and family! Go figure..
Post # 6
damn straight queenbee! i always play ms nice lady, but about 2 years ago, i stopped that sh** and it feels so good!
Post # 7
I completely understand what you mean! I’ve found as I’ve gotten older that if someone doesn’t think I like them, they’re really nice to me. It makes no sense, but it’s true. It’s happened six times that I can count so far….
Post # 8
Well, I mean geez…. I kind of think that at least if I acted like a b*%$# and people didn’t like me, they’d at least have a reason lol.
When you’re nice & people don’t like you, it makes no sense.