Post # 1
I know he either has the ring or he doesnt have very much to pay on it, last time i think there was 40$ left to pay…so why does he keep putting it off. I say sometimes we should go overnight to niagera or toronto for the night, maybe even in to the states ,but the only reply i get is maybe..no real answer or plans. I dont know why all of a sudden i feel like he doesnt want it to happen, i mean before he was all excited and talking about the wedding etc..im just having some very bad waiting days and im getting grumpy..i know i know my time will come, but i want the time to come now…ive been patient for a long time, he started paying for the ring back around christmas time…and like i said if he doesnt already have it there is only 40$ left…i wish i knew what was keeping him. i just hope its not cold feet or something..this waiting game is getting harder and harder each day..i just want to marry my love, and i feel like it is taking an eternity..
sorry for the long vent
Post # 3
Maybe he already has it planned out so that why he wount make plans with you?
If he already has the ring, he has to be planning something. Relax, I dough its cold feet, if he wasnt sure he wouldn’t bought the ring 🙂 Be happy and enjoy your time with him 🙂
Post # 4
I know exactly how you feel.I went throught the exact same thing with FI . Once I got my ring Fi told me he had the ring for 3 weeks before he proposed; he said because it felt like torture to him my attitude and mood swings he made me wait longer..Lol. I was mad upon hearing this but then I thought about it and I was obsessed and drove myself crazy. It also does not help when everyone and their mom is getting engaged. All I can say is hang in there that ring is coming!!show your bf some extra love and see what happens I truly believe it is gonna happen very soon for you maybe that’s why he isn’t eager to wedding chat? Wants to throw you off guard. Good luck and remember you are beautiful and this guy Loves you!!!