TMI: Do you have a BJ "Finishing Move"?

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

PortiaPie:  I love that you said that because I was going to joke, “I say ‘Hurry up!’.” Maybe other Bees have better ideas. 

Post # 4
229 posts
Helper bee

The only “technique” I’ve used that regularly works for me is switching into the 69 position. Something about the angle of my head being switched 180 degrees does it, when I’m on top of him. Also, actively sucking seems to help – if I can maintain suction throughout the bj, it goes much quicker (Wow, I can’t believe I just said that).


That’s just what helps me!

Post # 5
5968 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017


PortiaPie:  here’s my bit of TMI for the day…… I find that if I combine my hand and my mouth it will finish him off faster. The other day though it wasn’t working, which is how I got  cuts from my teeth rubbing the inside of my mouth. I have never been more grateful for a bj to be over with. I generally really like doing it but this last time was killer. I was hoping to get better advice from this thread lol. Over all, I think my usual hand\mouth method works best for SO. also, somethinig about if I am on all fours gives hm a good visual. So I’ll position myself in between his legs while he lays on his back, I lean down so I’m balancing on my elbows and so my butt is kind of up a bit. Kind of how I would be if we were doing it doggy style. he’s an ass man, so something about having that visual while I’m doing it helps him out. I also make eye contact and make it interesting for him with small noises or by running my hand up his chest or something.

Post # 6
851 posts
Busy bee

I’m a fan of the hand/mouth combo (also helps if your jaw is getting tired, lol). And I’m a firm believer that no man can resist being deep throated. You may also want to try different positions to see if something is easier for him (it’s much harder for my FI to get off via blowjob when he’s standing, for example)

Post # 7
1677 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Hand + mouth “connected.” Plus make a twisting motion with your wrist. Also come to the very tip with your mouth (hand still on the shaft) and kinda make it feel like a penetrating entrance with your lips every few pumps.

Post # 8
35 posts

My blow job moves involve lots of saliva and twisting, with occasional ball massage. Plus, when I really want him to finish, some dirty talk begging him to cum in my mouth gets him going.  

My technique starts with my left hand around the base squeezing lightly and the other above it.  I use my right in connection with my mouth, twisting the top part of his dick up and down while my mouth works it in.  Then I sometimes let go with my left and rub his balls, and tickle the “taint” with a fingernsil.  He is too big for me to deep throat, but I try sometimes.  It’s just not a skill I excell at.  Usually the ball rubbing sends him off.  But if not, dirty talk dies it.  He loves that I swallow too.  

Lots of techniques for BJ’s. But really, is there a bad bj? I can’t imagine a guy complaining.  

Post # 9
382 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

I seriously applaud you bees, my girl friend can swallow and I cannot even try to go that far. My first bj I ever gave, the guy didn’t tell me he was about to finish, so he did, and I threw up on him. Bad gag reflex, I was horrified/mortified. FI seems to like what I do now, he never expects to get one but always appreciates the effort lol I wish I could be better at it but he always tells me I do plenty for him. 

Post # 10
1801 posts
Buzzing bee

I always alternate “moves” and when I do something that he verbally states turns him on, I take mental note. We tend to be big teases while giving each other oral, so sometimes sucking solely on the head, licking up and down the shaft, or sucking hard while only having like 1/2 1/3 in my mouth for a few minutes before deep throating for another few drive him wild. That, and if youve seen my posts before I stated that he’s very verbal, so moaning, purposefully making gaggin noises, or dirty talk help push him over the edge. Also, if I blow him with him standing up and me having my head hang off the bed, he loves being able to control the movements, plus he can play with me

69 works wonders too. He’s an ass man, so he has access to spank me and I swear that position helps you easily go deeper

ETA:Just thought of something…..sometimes I stop sucking for a minute, and gently ride him, purposefully rubbing his dik against my clit and doing so enthusiastically drives him nuts. Right when hes about to put his hand on my stuff, I hop off and start sucking again

  • This reply was modified 2 years ago by  Liss13. Reason: Forgot something
Post # 11
746 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

I love all these posts, maybe im a dirty birdy, but i love it!

hand and mouth like they said, and whoever said that twisting action with your hand/HANDS, maintaining eye contact. my SO loves both hands and its like im giving him those…what are they u used to do to other kids arms???

Indian rubber burn or something!!!!! obviously not as agressive but with enuff spit that’ll make him go in .30 seconds, and he usually a toughie to get off hehe.

Post # 12
119 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2047

PortiaPie:  Well… First of all you should just ask him what he loves the most. He will really appreciate you caring! Then you can always observe his face…. everything is written on it 😉 and if that doesnt work – try lingam massage. Trust me! This thing works wonders 😀

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