(Closed) TMI-FI likes to stroke himself while going down on me. Question?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
12071 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014


clearly he enjoys what he’s doing, perhaps it’s a bit of a fantasy.  You could always offer to ‘let me do that for you’ if it bothers you.  If he says he’s enojying himself, then enjoy yourself!  You’re a lucky girl 🙂

Post # 4
983 posts
Busy bee

So?  What’s the big deal? My Fiance does it. It turns me on. I pleasure myself while I do things to him. Its part of foreplay. 

Post # 5
3316 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Nope, you should take it as he gets so excited about going down on you, he can’t keep his hands off himself.

Post # 6
231 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Take it as you ARE doing it for him, so much so that he cant resisist touching himself!Its only like me touching myself when Darling Husband is doing something I like, its not that he doesnt do it for me, its that I get all het up that I cant NOT touch myself!

Post # 7
1186 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Sounds like you’re both getting what you want.  That’s a good thing!

Post # 8
110 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I think you are over thinking this. He loves going down on you so much he touches himself while he does it. Enjoy it! I would be extremely turned on by this. Usually we 69 and we are touching each other all over. 

Post # 9
285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

My Fiance does it! I think it’s hot! LOL

Post # 11
8487 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

@2dBride:  This.


He’s touching himself because he LIKES what he’s doing.

Post # 12
739 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Agree with PPs, if it ain’t broke… don’t try to fix it!! He obviously likes it, and it’s working out. Worst comes to worse if you’re uncomfortable with it you can always ask to do it for him or ask him about it. I think you should just leave it alone!

Post # 13
13099 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

@2dBride:  “Nope, you should take it as he gets so excited about going down on you, he can’t keep his hands off himself.”


Post # 14
1011 posts
Bumble bee

Definitely means he really enjoys what he’s doing!

Assuming he gets you off with his mouth, he’s also probably trying to keep the stimulation up, because he doesn’t want to soften (a lot of guys want to be able to put it in right after, and if he isn’t still fully hard, that delays this).  Visual/emotional stimualtion with generate an erection, but generally men need physical stimulation to maintain one, especially if they’re keeping it up for long periods of time.

Post # 15
1081 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I think that is hot. 

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