- 3 years ago
I went anon for this one. My FI is such a horny guy. I spend all weekend will him, and we probably have sex 3-4 times easily. Well this weekend he was trying to get frisky but it was just bad timing- today he tried to jump on me twice but either someone else was in the house, or we were just leaving to go see a friend. Well tonight I initiated sex and suggested maybe he take care of me, and I’ll return the favor. Well he made out with me, got me off (usually he gets really into it and a little aggresive lol- well tonight I did notice that he was a lot softer- but it worked, I got off super fast!). I then tried to initiate sex and he brushed it off saying “no, tonight was about you”. And after I couple more tries I got “you always get me off and I don’t always return the favor, so lets just stop with you”. Ok, my FI is really sweet, but he has never rejected sex before. I thought maybe he wanted something different so I offered to give him a BJ (the boy absolutely goes crazy for BJs) and he was like “No, I can just tell that I won’t be able to get off. I can’t explain it, I just know”. I reassured him that he can tell me anything-and asked a bunch of questions like “are you having ED? Is it something I did? Is it because we had a fight a few days ago? Is something bothering you”. It was obvious he knew what the problem is and he didn’t want to tell me. We are so honest with eachother- that is just so not like him!! He asked me to drop it, told me he loved me so much and it’s nothing about me, and then went to bed. So strange! Please help! The only time in our 4 yr relationship that he had the slightest problems getting off was when he had super bad whiskey di**, and even then he tried and tried lol. Tonight he wouldn’t even let me try!!! That has never happened, and it’s so not like him! What is it?!!! Any ideas?!!! Advice?!