(tmi) TTC and porn?

posted 3 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@mrsw2013:  Just want to add that I think he would have “replenished his swimmers” by tonight; obviously depending on the age and health of the male in question, it usually only takes a few hours, so you would have been fine if you were in fact ovulating today.

Source? Uni student who has completed a basic unit on human anatomy & physiology 🙂

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013
Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@mrsw2013:  masturbating and sex are two completely different and unrelated things. I think it’s unfair he has to give up his self time because you’re TTC. He should have to ask you if he can masturbate because you’re ovulating. It sounds like all the planning around TTC is stressing him out and while I see why you are upset, I dont think There’s a way to bring it up without putting even more pressure on him.

i think you need to try and make te whole thing less clinical. He doesn’t know when you’re ovulating so he’s not going to ask and you shouldn’t necessarily tell him. when you’re ovulating put on some sexy clothes and initiate yourself. Keep it light ad fun, you’ll get your baby!

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@mrsw2013:  FI put off his yearly check up with the doctor.  i told him he should and to ask questions about getting pregnant since we are TTC next month.

anyway, doctor told him no masturbation during TTC.  he should save his sperm for me.

i know FI masterbates.  i’ve never caught him, but he does tell me he does it.

i think you should tell him the week before that ovulation is coming and he needs to hold off on masterbating.  after your O day passes, then he can masterbate again.

 

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