Post # 1
If you use withdrawal or pull out method for birth control, where does he… um… deposit? On you, paper towel, piece of clothing on the floor? I can’t figure out how people do this on a regular basis!
And yeah… this is a secret account. 🙂
Post # 3
@anonabee17: Let’s just say I like my facials. Sorry, I’m blunt.
ETA: I should say the same as Cady. It’s mostly for sexual purposes and because it’s something we enjoy. Not because we are trying to prevent something – which isn’t all that effective anyways.
Post # 4
You need to be very careful if you’re using pull out for BC, it does not work. We don’t do it on a regular basis but when we do it’s usually just on me.
Post # 5
On my stomach. I agree with ShutterbugCait that pulling out is definitely not a reliable method of birth control. I’m on the pill and we usually use condoms as well. If pulling out is your only method and you don’t want any “accidents,” you should have a back up!
Post # 6
We do this for sexual reasons, its not on a regular basis and it is not used as BC. I do not think it is very reliable in that way.
On my stomach or boobs though…..
Post # 7
I should have been more specific about the birth control bit– we are currently in the not trying that hard not to phase. As in, we will start actually TTC in a couple months, but I went off birth control to give my body some time to regulate. So… we are trying to make it less likely to happen, rather than full on prevention like when I was on the pill. But ok, sounds like everyone does the same as us.
Post # 8
I think it depends on your preferences. If you don’t care where he ejaculates perhaps he has a fantasy or a place ( stomach, boobs, etc) that he would like to so you could always ask him It also probably is influenced what position you are having sex in when he is close to finishing- are you on your stomach, back, side etc . If you are grossed out by it, then you just have to be in touch about when he feels he is going to come and provide a towel or something to keep things contained and hygienic.
Best of luck with your TTC journeys 🙂
Post # 9
ive used this method with almost every guy ive been with, a few have used condoms but ive never been on birth control, hope this isnt too visual but im a girl who absolutely loves doggie style and i find thats the easiest positiion to use the pull out method and have the guy finish on your back and/or butt, has worked every time for me.
Post # 10
Honestly, we’ve used this method as BC ever since we’ve been intimate. Those who are saying that its not effective, it can be, but your guy needs to be extremely disciplined and pull out on time. It takes practice. In terms of where he, uhm, deposits his load, it depends on the position. If I’m on my stomach or something, usually on my butt. If he’s on top of me, usually on my tummy, neck, or if he’s lucky, face, lol.
Post # 11
i agree with coffeegal, it takes a guy with a lot of self control and it has to be timed perfectly to work, the thing that sucks is that im a girl who has my most intense orgasms when a guy cums in me, it was like that with my all time best lover, we planned on using the pull out method but he finished inside me the first time and squitred so hard that there was a puddle on the sheets and every time we had sex from then on the same thing would happen, luckily i never ended up pregnant, his swimmers must have been weak which is weird because he was a very big boy, biggest ive ever had in both length and thickness.
Post # 13
I used to work at a family planning clinic [dont want to name it and get controversial…] as a sex educator and we used to joke that we had a name for people who use the pull out method…
Lol. That said, I’m glad you aren’t using it as your method of BC hoping it will be anything like 100% effective! It can certainly reduce chances, but should not be relied upon. …and in my experience when a guy pulls out, wherever is most convenient generally. Could be stomach, boobs, butt, depends on the position.
Post # 14
We use the pull out method and have not gotten pregnant but we are also not worried if we do get pregnant. He usually finished on me depending on the position we are in like boobs, stomach, behind amoung other places. 🙂
Post # 15
@crosscountry09: lol, well i am a parent-to-be from using to this method, so i get it!
OP, we were like you though, we were not trying that hard not to get pregnant and then we did. I can’t even say we were disciplined about the pull out because the plan was to use a condom before he finished, but a few times we just never got around to it and his pull out was at the last second. And now i am pregnant 🙂
And as for where, it seems we are in the minority, but i don’t like the idea of sticky cum on any part of my body, so on the bed or into a kleenex if there was one nearby is what we used.
Post # 16
He can pull out and “finish off” where-ever he prefers, or he can just let it fly where-ever if you don’t mind.