(Closed) To ask or not to ask? HALP!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Who should I ask?
    Mutual friend & MOH wannabee : (1 votes)
    11 %
    FI's step-sisters : (1 votes)
    11 %
    None, stick with 3 and FH with 5 : (6 votes)
    67 %
    Other - explained below! : (1 votes)
    11 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    6394 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I definitely wouldn’t ask MOH-wannabe, she sounds like she’d be a MOHzilla and a pain in the ass, too. I voted for keeping three, but I think asking FI’s sisters would be fine, too. I would really steer clear of MOH-wannabe, though!

    Post # 4
    Member
    30 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Haha – when you commented on my post saying we were in the same situation i had NO idea how ridiculously the same it was!

    The 3 girls im asking to be my bridesmaids are my cousin, my brothers soon-to-be fiance, and my best friend (^sound familiar?^). That’s crazy weird your having the EXACT same people in your life be your bridesmaids haha!

    I decided what I’m going to do though – i’m just going to stick with the 3 i want (my optional 4th was my fi’s half sister – again, way to similar to your option to ask your fi’s step sisters) – I’m not going to worry about numbers. Whether my fiance choses 4 or 5 i’m leaving it to him. 

    Good luck with your MOH-wannabee. She sounds like a blast :/

    Post # 5
    Member
    1684 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Ditch the MoHzilla. Delete, block, finito, seriously.

    Ask your friend flying in from Singapore to be a bridesmaid. And, if you feel comfortable, why not ask your FI’s step-sisters to do a reading each at the ceremony? Or, in the alternative, perhaps a short toast at the reception (emphasis on SHORT.) 😉

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