- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
I am having my ceremony in a garden. There are a number of paving stones that enter the garden and lead to the main aisle. I want to have my groom walk in first from a side aisle and then I’ll come in and meet him half way down the center aisle. My question is regarding music…..how do we let the audience, whose backs will be facing us, know he’s coming in? My FI thinks he should come in unobtrusively and then start the music when I come in, but I think it may be weird if the music starts and they look back and he’s already standing there. We have live music that will be playing as the guests are seated….do we have them stop when the groom comes in so they know something is happening? How have other people done this?