To invite boss to the shower or not?

posted 3 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Do I invite my female boss to:
    My shower & my wedding : (0 votes)
    My wedding only : (3 votes)
    30 %
    Neither : (7 votes)
    70 %
  • Post # 2
    3772 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    lala3005:  Unless you are friends with her, don’t invite her to the shower. I think showers are for friends and relatives, not coworkers unless you are tight.

    Post # 3
    6739 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I wouldn’t invite her because you don’t describe her as a friend. The nicest thing you’ve said about your relationship with her is that you get along okay but don’t really interact. Doesn’t sound like she should make the guest list for what is traditionally a more intimate, gifting-expected event.

    Post # 4
    44596 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I simply do not see the point of inviting people with whom you hardly exchange a word to either your shower or your wedding. These are supposed to be occasions to be surrounded by your nearest and dearest.

    Post # 5
    2473 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    You’re not burning bridges by not inviting her because this has nothing to do with work or your performance.. it’s something very personal to you. There doesn’t seem to be any type of relationship there other than work (and still very minimal at that), so don’t feel bad or guilty about it.

    Post # 6
    1641 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    4 bosses

    2 coworkes you are inviting to the shower

    1- you

    1- who?

    If there’s already someone else you are leaving out of the shower/ wedding I wouldn’t sweat leaving your female boss out.

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