- 4 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014
Hello little bees!
Advice needed please! Approx 1 year ago my sister and I had a falling out (shes 36, no job, drinks alot…) she called my mun a c.u. next tuesday and I lost it with her. She tends to say things without thinking and then has forgotten by the next day. She wished me dead, we parted ways and that was that.Around 6 months later a similar thing has happened between her and my brother (with whom I am quite close) and he has disowned her as a sister. Her and my parents are civil now but that’s about as far as it goes.
Anyway… got engaged approx 3 month ago wooo!! Wedding booked for around 11 month from now, (havent been congratulated by her either :() and numbers are soooo tight. So what do I do?! Invite her and pretend nothing happened and seat her away from my brother? Dont invite her at all? But if we eventually end up talking she will be missing from my pictures?? Also she is alcoholic and ny fiances family (even after 5 years) havent met her cos im just ashamed of her behaviour. Shes a loud and horrible drunk, but shes still my sister. Sigh. Help!