(Closed) To Invite or Not To Invite

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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1315 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Why should you have to invite them? They sound like horrible people who don’t wish you well. If their dislike is as blatant as that then I see no need for you to invite them.

You just need to make clear that you’re not asking anyone to take sides: it’s simply that they don’t seem to like you, you’re not asking anyone else to get involved at all.

Feck it, life’s too short. Why should you have to look at their sour faces on your wedding day? Ugh. Stay strong!

Post # 4
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11 posts
Newbee

While a wedding is a day of people helping you celebrate your love…why invite people that don’t care about you? These people don’t seem to wish you a happy life. It’s YOUR wedding. You should have only the best memories.

Post # 5
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183 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think you & the FI should invite who you truly want to share and celebrate your day.  The guests you invite should be ppl who will be genuinely happy for you. You don’t need that drama, esp on such a joyous day. If I were in your situation, I wouldn’t invite them. 

Both the FI & i come from HUGE families, with LOTS of drama and troublemakers.  But we are only inviting 50- 60 of our closest family members.  Both our moms have given the guilt about inviting so & so, and I just am not doing it.  They’ll get over it.  🙂

Post # 6
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630 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Dont invite them. it will cause MORE drama if you invite them and will ruin ur day

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